Also the reason why I didn't place trust up there was because all these traits are building blocks of trust. Trust should always be built hence created between two people. ❤️
You have quality taste.Where do you stand on religion?
I'm a non practicing catholic, I believe in God, I just don't believe in the church but doesn't mean I wouldn't occasionally visit the church, it's more the people of the church I feel are imperfect people and do not feel the need to follow them as I follow God.I am also married to an Agnostic who used to be an atheist when we met. He also has a family background of Catholics.
Thanks for sharing. I value your opinion.
Thank you ❤️ 😊
I'm your husband
Love your approach. ❤️
Don't agree, every healthy men wants to have children and in this case a wife too, if they're compatible.
Actually you’re very wrong!! The higher IQ men with better genes refuse to have kids or get septa with women. While men while the “hillbilly” or Indians or Third World incompetent people breed like rabbits.
I didn't say high IQ, I said healthy. At the end of the day, everyone wants someone and not feel lonely. Then the type of relationship or who he chooses depends on his personality. That's just my opinion.
Alone man is a happy man, alone woman is a missable woman.
I doubt this @m33lad. Personally women offer more than sex. A wife is a mother, a sister and a daughter plus a friend in one. When you've had an amazing mother and sister, you thank God everyday for a wife that makes missing them feel less harsh. Women are adorable. They bring more than sex to the table. Even their voice is a blessing. Thank God for every woman He has made. I am most grateful.
You’re a beta! You’re going out with woman. And you’re referring to women as a whole.
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You must be an expert psychologist because I really love your answers❤️
Haaa, I did take a psyche class in college. And the human brain fascinates me to no end.I could go on n on with brain stuff lol
Everything without good lover, would still be perfect right? You can always teach him? Just curious.
What about the sex? If he has all this but not too hyped up about sex would you still marry?
Yeah I would
You don't care about his religion?
No I don't
Okay. Thanks for sharing.
how much money are you wanting him to make?
He doesn’t have to make 6 figures but a decent salary like $50 - $60 k is good. But a six figure or high five figure salary is nice too
@Cherry234 you do understand that the trade off for him making that kind of money is basically never seeing him though, right? we're talking 60-80 hours a week. Would you rather him work that many hours or make less and be home with you?
80 hrs per week is a lot but 60 hrs is not that much. If his job requires him to work that much then I can accept that. I don’t want to be so clingy. If it was 100+ hrs a week then maybe I’d reconsider or learn to adapt
I mean be so clingy that I expect him to be around me a lot. I understand that people are busy and have lives of their own
As long as he makes some time for me and doesn’t completely ignore me bc of his job/career then it’s fine with me
okay just curious. I turned down that option because I didn't want to spend 6 days a week at work. My motivation to work isn't because I enjoy it lol. In fact I'd say I hate work. But I do it because I want a family someday.
Ok I understand
Can I know what the 'some' are?
I mean, actually, it is kind of all, but I'm atheist, so it depends on his love of jesus and how he chooses to practice. same as money matters, because he needs to be able to at least afford himself.
@SnakeBoop see when you ladies say this about money it's confusing because when you say money I'm thinking around 6 figures or something like that. If the guy took good care of his body, had a good heart, treated you well, but was making like 50K what would you say to that?
@t-8900 I'd say 50k would make him sound rich to me. Like I said, I'm more bothered about him being able to afford HIS lifestyle. Sure, its great if he can help if my finances fuck up, but I never expect a guy to pay my way nor would look for that solely in date material.
@SnakeBoop if we were married the whole wouldn't mind helo her out? Only thing is I don't want to be expected to buy her new cars and stuff like that or pay off he student loan debts.
Do you mean asexuality forever or just until marriage?
That's a sexual orientation. Ylu can't change that. FOREVER
Why would you want a husband than can have sex but doesn't feel?
Meh. I find sex disgusting tbh. So better find someone who is ok with not having sex
Okay, I get now. Thanks for sharing.
Looks? NoMoney? A little, probably not enoughKindness - yes, but this drives women away actually No hope for me. Pass. Pass. Pass and you go buy a dog die alone cuz I’m busy over here now
Seriously just wipe your ass with female responses like @tatianamay or @Ayanna240 women just say stuff because it makes them sound like better person than they are
Hating on women will not make you more datable. We have enough misogynists on here
@Ayanna240 it does make me more fuckable 😜😜😜
Agree, some level of ambition. But it's not the only important thing of course. It's more important to be compatible with each other.