My ex keeps talking about settling down with me and having kids.. constantly! I'm refusing to even go back with him, yet he won't get the idea of us "having a family and being grandparents some day and spoiling our grandkids" out of his head?
Is this normal for a guy?
Why would he just not accept the fact that I'm not going back to him.. and that he messed up?!
- Yes, it's weird.Vote A
- No, it's not weird.Vote B
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I put not it's not weird, because the question is, Is it weird for a guy to talk more about "family" than a girl does." And no that's not weird.
Now, I will be happy to explain how it is weird in this case. It's simple. You aren't his girlfriend, or even fiance. If that was the case then it isn't weird, but in this case it is really weird. You don't like him, you don't want to get back with him. I find it weird he is trying to get back with you after you tell him this stuff. At the same time I find it extremely weird and CREEPY that he is talking about marriage and grand-kids with you when you clearly stated you don't want to be with him. Being clingy and not letting go of a fail relationship is bad enough, but talking about marriage with a girl who openly states she wants nothing to do with him? Come on now. That's just messed up!2