I REALLY want to have a boyfriend... have him propose to me... get married, have a honey moon... get all that lovey dovey feeling, and pleasure of being in love! I have a friend who is 17 and pregnant... and I wish I were in her shoes! I REALLY want a baby... I want to be pregnant... I know the consequences of all these thing.. but that's all I think about... having my own family and loving my family! is it wrong of me to think these things?
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It's not wrong for you to want to have a family...some day. A lot of girls get that strong desire at that age...but please believe me when I say it's the hormones making you want to do all of that right this second. You deserve a fulfilling marriage and beautiful family. However, the odds teens families staying together in the long run are incredibly slim. Most times, guys that young aren't ready to deal with the pressure and responsibilities of marriage and fatherhood. Are you prepared to be up at all hours of the night caring for a baby, working part-time to pay for a place to live, a car, daycare, groceries, etc, and do all of it ALONE if he decides to bail out? You deserve so much better than that. If you want that picture perfect family, then you have to approach it like an adult. Finish your education, find a stable job, and be prepared for a family before you start trying to create one. If you and your boyfriend are meant to be together, then you're going to be twice as much in love in a few years as you are now. Enjoy what you have right now, because you can never get it back.0