What would you do if your boyfriend or significant other gave you a promise ring saying you are gonna get married in the future?

your boyfriend or significant other, gave you a promise ring saying you are gonna get married in the future.

You love him with your whole heart however you wanna explore the world first and meet new people but he wants to go off to college with you then come back home and get married.

You try to explain this fact to him, and tell him that if you're meant to be you will be but he gets mad and threatens to break up with you if you don't accept the ring.

How would you react? What would you say? Would you take the ring? And if you didn't, how would you try and move on?


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What Guys Said 2

  • There is no reason to accept a ring if you aren't serious about it. And further, he is probably way too young and immature to know what he's doing or getting into anyway.

    He might be set on doing things the hard way, and if he is, then you have to stand your ground and let the chips fall where they may. If you break up, it isn't the end of the world, and you can be sure you made the right decision. He's worried about the future and trying to make serious executive decisions to mold the future how he wants it. The sad part about that, is those hasty decisions usually guarantee it won't workout between the two of you.

  • He didn't respect your opinion to want to explore the world which is the proper response to that proposal, so I wouldn't accept the ring. If he really loved you he would be able to accept your decision. I don't know how you move on from that except go off to college and live life.


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