See when my and my boyfriend first got together I weighed 235, now I weigh more, but have been up and down in it . As of now I hate put back the weight I lost, well 25 lbs of it anyways, and about 4-5 months ago we were talking about me going on a diet (well more less I was telling him I wanted to) ,he slipped up and said well if you lost weight and looked like this girl in the picture we can get married. he doesn't remember it now, but It was very hurtful and I don't even talk about our future such as getting married and having kids and all that. but he has changed so much, but I love him regardless,DO YOU JUST THINK THAT IT IS RIGHT FOR HIM TO SAY THAT? WHEN THERE IS A LEGIT REASON WHY MY WEIGHT FLUCTUATE?
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Guys sometimes say things just to joke around if he doesn't remember it wasn't something he meant, or said to offend you, But it offended you because your concern about your weight, If comments like that upset you, just let him know that for you the subject weight, is a little sensitive so that he can prevent himself from hurting your feelings again (It's all about communication)1