Okay, so I work in the fields with a lot of Mexicans and I'm white and blond. Well I really like this one guy and well we give each other "that look" and he speaks a little English. Well He kept on asking if I had a boyfriend, can I cook, am I married, and stuff like that. well he starts asking me about my mom and he said he wants to meet her and giver her a big hug.And he said now she is his mom too. and I was like your mom? And another person translated for him. She said you and "------" are one. You ma is "----"s ma? and I said..well why not, why not. and he just was like YES! and then that girl said that me and him are together and married. that me and him are married. I don't know about in another countries but in America we have an actual wedding. but then when I think about it, marriage is actually just a vow you make to one another...and then after that he started to say..i love you and calling me his girl and his baby and stuff like that... so I'm not sure what happened so can y'all help me out please...?!
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Just to give you a bit of context, in Mexico and most of Latin America, girls are considered "women" and marriagable once they turn 15. And while arranged marriages aren't the majority, they are still quite common. Family is strong in Latin America.
Obviously you aren't legally married as far as the US is concerned (not even close), but I'm sure there are plenty of guys from south of the border who would love to find themselves a young, pretty blond white girl to marry. Of course, you might not be quite as happy when you learn how wives are expected to behave: the husband comes first in Latin America, and the wife obeys.0