One of my best girlfriends just got married and am kinda wondering if it's OK for me to keep hanging out with her?. Her husband is so mature and I feel childish around him and this make me feel that he might start to get annoyed if I continue going to their place and hanging out with his wife.Guys how would you feel if your wife continued to hangout with her young single friends?. Is it an issue?.
- Yes.Vote A
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Why is it not okay to hang out with her anymore? Getting married doesn't mean you can only have married friends. Everyone is different, and everyone's life progresses at different times. Just because she is married doesn't mean you need to stop talking and hanging out with her.
The real friends are the ones who want you in their life forever, not just when it suits their image. I have friends who are married, or have kids or have significant others and many of them don't want to hang out with me anymore because they can't relate to me. Apparently not being married or having kids at 22 makes me immature? :S
People who do that to you are snobs, and aren't worth the time anyway. But I would still pursue this friendship. Yes her being married might change the friendship you have, but she's still the same person, just married.
I don't know why her husband would be annoyed if you keep hanging around with her. Being married doesn't make you any smarter or any better than anyone else. Not being married doesn't make you dumb, immature or not as worthy of friends as married people.
Married couples still need friends too, independently and as a couple. Being married doesn't mean that you have to cut ties with your old life. The only thing that changes is that she won't be able to go out to find a guy, because she's married.
I would still pursue this friendship. Especially if you have known her for a long time. Why give up on a friendship just because someone gets married? Makes no sense to me.