My wonderful boyfriend of 18 months asked me to marry him 2 days ago.I kind of freaked out and said I needed time to think.I love him truly but I have serious trust issues from my previous relationships and I panicked.He hasn't called since and I'm not sure what to do now.I really don't want this to be the end of us.Do I call him or give him some time?
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Before you even think of getting married to anyone, you should think of the consequences. As in, the future with that person, if you can endure the obstacles you come apon, and many more. Also, you mentioned you have trust problems still? If you can't overcome that trust problem then you shouldn't be in any relationship yet. Its best to be honest with your partner. I understand previous relationships will cause your confidence level to drop (honesty, etc) but you need to move on and get overcome that fear/obstacle. And he hasn't called? That's very interesting but don't make any assumptions yet. Misunderstandings will cause problems later. Instead, keep your mind open ( I know its hard to). Your partner could either be giving you some time, he's scared of your answer since you panicked, and etc or he could be not serious about the marriage thing. In my opinion, Its best to give yourself and him some time to think about this... no rush should take place. Call him up to somewhere and meet him face to face and talk about it. Don't do it by voice to voice by phone.0