We have been a couple for 8 months. Now she is mentioning marriage a lot. Saying things " when we get married..." naming kids, type of house she would like us to live in, all that stuff. She is an amazing girlfriend and I love her a lot and can definitely see myself marrying her someday. What do you think? Do you think she is just very in love with me, which she is, and it is making her say these things, or do you think that 8 months is too soon for her to be so sure that I am the one she is going to marry? A couple of important things is that she is just 19 and I am her first ever boyfriend. Also, her parents mention marriage to us also and want us to get married. What do you think? Is it possible she can change her mind? I'm 25.
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my uncle proposed to my aunt after 2 months & they've been happily married since for over 30 years.
for one thing its just nice to imagine your future with the person you're with because you like them so much & can't see why you'd ever break up but as to how serious she is, I can't say...
also when talking about the future you may learn that your partner has different ideas about kids, parenting, marriage, etc so its good to talk about it because you may discover that your partner really isn't someone you match up well with.0