About two months ago I started talking to a waitress at a local bar , ,she friended me on Facebook. And basically came out and asked me if I would have sex with her. Well it's turned into way more than sex.. Now I have some real feelings for her. she spends the night we go on trips. I'm thinking about ending it and let her figure herself out. But I'm afraid I might lose her if I do.
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I think if you stay, you wouldn't be fair to yourself. You want more. Are you really ready to settle for less? I have a feeling that if you were to stay, you would end up being dissatisfied because you would always be waiting for the day for her to finally choose YOU.
She has some things she needs to straighten out. She shouldn't be engaged if she has trouble staying faithful to the one she made a promise to. I'm not saying that to judge her, but it is the facts. Right now, she has the best of both worlds. She has you both. Nobody can stay in this position for long and the longer things progress this way, the messier things are going to get. What if she goes through with the wedding? What then?
Losing her may be a small price to pay to get what you really want. Are you willing to risk it? If her emotions for you are strong enough, she will choose you. But if not, wouldn't you rather know now so you can move on and find someone who is free and clear? Someone who can love you freely and not have to hide it?
I wish you the best of luck with this.1