My relationship with my fiance has been ongoing for about 2 and a half years. I am going into this marriage with the biggest secret of my life...that I had a criminal conviction. For whatever reason, I simply cannot tell him. I am beginning to become insecure simply because I know that IF he knew, he wouldn't feel the same about me any more.
Only a few more months until the wedding. Comments please.
- Tell himVote A
- Don't tell himVote B
- Tell him and YES he might leaveVote C
- Tell him and there may be a chance he won'tVote D
Most Helpful Guy
You should have told him a long time ago. The problem with keeping the secret is that if he ever finds out then he'll wonder what else you aren't telling him. That goes for all secrets. What kind of marriage are you going to have if there is no trust?0