I am concerned for a guy friend of mine. He could easily get laid if he wanted to but chooses not to because he wants an emotional connection. At the same time nobody measures up to his desires because the woman that he is looking for doesn't exist. So how do I convince him to take his head out of his ass, have sex like a normal guy.
He wants a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life with him eventhough he doesn't want kids or marriage and accepts his conditions. Problem is, is that any woman that accepts his conditions are the ones that are a tad more sexually liberated, which he doesn't like either because they are too slutty for his taste.
So where do I find a non-slutty woman who doesn't want marriage or kids? Where does this strange breed of female exist? I'm OK with not having kids but no-ring is a dealbreaker.
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First off, well done for trying to help your friend out. It sounds like he has a hollywood image of romance and the "happy ever afters" vision. He will learn in time that this is not really the case. However, I do commend him on not settling. I'm pretty old fashioned about these kind of situations too. But I'm a firm believer in "whatever will be will be" thing, so I wouldn't worry too much about him. Some things have a way of just working themselves out and I'm sure his ultimate woman will appear at some stage haha!1