With no kids to settle and marry her when she has 2 kids? I mean I can see one kid but 2 kids and now you want a man to marry you who isn't the father WITH NO KIDS? Guys if you had no kids would you even date or marry a woman who had kids already? Thoughts
Do you think its selfish for a woman to marry a man?
What Guys Said 6
If he is OK with it than sure, it's fine. She shouldn't expect him to though. I think if they are at a marriage stage they are beyond the point of that being ok0
I agree with Trojan. Women with no kids marry guys who have kids.
It is your choice to walk away. I can't date girls with kids.0
I would not marry a woman who already had kids.0
It's not selfish at all if she has something to offer him as well. By that, I mean a lovely personality, respect for him, love, great sex, etc. Also, keep in mind that a lot of us guys love kids, so to some of us her kids would be viewed as a bonus.
Life is not as simple as just being "equally yoked".2
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Dating a mom is like playing a new video game but instead of starting from scratch you are starting from somebody else's save file...
The older the kid is or the more kids there are, the further into the game the save file begins...
Some guys don't mind and can deal with it, others can't0
I'm single and don't have any kids and I wouldn't date, let alone marry, a woman that has kids. I'm even surprised people get married nowadays - it's pointless2
What Girls Said 3
I don't think it's selfish. Sometimes the guy just doesn't care that the woman has children already or he loves the fact that she has a family. Maybe he really likes her and her kids?
It's hard for a person to know whether they would or would not want to be with someone who has kids, until they are in that situation. Sometimes you just can't help falling in love with a person.
But it's hardly selfish. In order to get married, both people have to agree and want it. So I doubt the guy is getting married because the woman wants it. If he didn't want to marry her, he wouldn't.0
It's not selfish...she has the right to marry someone even though she has kids. The guy is not forced to propose...3
Maybe us Mummies are just not worth it!1
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