It's a pretty simple question, I think. Which do you fear more?
Like, being single I don't want to be this way forever
and would like to get married. But, on another hand.
As much as my parents marriage as been a good example
for me, of what real love looks like. There's some things
about their marriage and how my dad can be, that make me
kinda leary about marriage. So, I guess I fear both.
How about you?
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Since I've already done both, I have nothing to fear. But I suspect you weren't asking married people, only people who have never been married.
However, I can still answer this question by describing what it was like and how I felt when I was younger.
At 19, the thought of it made me want to hide and never re-appear. OMG SO SCARY! The idea was totally preposterous. I did think maybe "some day", and "some day" was like "really long ways away"... I didn't give it a number though. I was thinking like 40 or something lol.
At 22, I was I wasn't really thinking about it, but I had an international visa problem and a perfectly good relationship I wanted to keep...I promised her if she couldn't get back I'd file for a K-visa (marriage to an American). Well, she got back OK anyway, but it got me to thinking that I was willing to do it. So if I was willing, then what am I waiting for?
So I got married the next year lolololol :) I didn't really think about it. Then like 2 months later it suddenly hit me. omg... I'm MARRIED! aaaahhhhhh!
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