how soon is too soon to get married. I always thought a year would be nice before proposing and maybe having a one year engagement before I tie the knot. My girlfriend says 8 months for a proposal and 8 months for an engagement, its not really a long time in between and if that is the case I need to propose last month.
I would love to spend the rest of my life with this girl. but after being together for 9 months I have 7 months to get married? she wants to get married in December . I think its too soon.. my friend says even 2 years is too soon. any more opinions?
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There is no "right" amount of time. Especially as we get older. If one or both of you already has kids, that'll potentially slow things down. If not, she probably expects to speed things up.
If you know you want to spend the rest of your life with her, what's the hesitation? You're not a teenager. You have enough life experience under your belt to know if its a good match or not.0