Boyfriend acting suspiciously? Should I be worried, or am I just being paranoid?

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I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 1 1/2 years now. I love him very much, and feel like I know him really well. But starting about 9 months ago, he suddenly started acting really weird.

At first, he suddenly became very distant/uninterested- he never wanted to hang out, and didn't seem very happy or excited about it when we did. His sex drive took a huge dive. He suddenly took up several time consuming hobbies. I didn't know what I had done wrong. I tried giving him tons of space, but for months, nothing changed.

Then, about 3 weeks ago, his behavior totally flipped again. He wanted to hang out way more, his sex drive improved a lot, and he was way more affectionate. He even started to buy me little gifts or do little favors for me for no reason. I love that he's acting this way again, but something just feels off to me.

I've read a couple articles that seem to suggest he could have/still is cheating or losing interest and planning on breaking up. I don't want to jump to conclusions, and I don't think he would do either one of those things, but I know guys can do really unexpected, horrible things sometimes.

What are some reasons he could have been acting this way? Should I be concerned, or am I just being paranoid about this?
Boyfriend acting suspiciously? Should I be worried, or am I just being paranoid?
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