My ex and I are getting a divorce. Its been over year now since we have lived together, and almost 2 years since I asked for a divorce. Currently I am in a new relationship. My boyfriend treats me better than any other guy I have even been with. Just let me say my husband was not the best at being at husband but he is an amazing dad and a great friend... He just sucked at being a lover and boyfriend. After 7 years I needed more. He is starting to talk to a girl we've known for a bit. She's younger than me. She's pretty but of course nothing compared to me. (lol hey I gotta be nice to myself here) I think I'm jealous. Not really jealous of him being with someone else more like... She gets the man he is now. I was the one who thought him that harsh lesson about love. at least its what he tells me. This girls will get someone I worked hard to get out of him. It seems unfair. All those years of training all gone to someone else. (I know training is the worst word but its true) Now I shouldn't feel this way. Like I said my boyfriend is amazing everyday is something new with him. He loves my kids and has added a 4 legged bff for my little one to our new home. I am happy. But why do I feel this way about my ex?
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It is natural to miss someone, even tho you know they are wrong for you. The important part is that you realize your new love is right for you. AND DO NOT SHARE YOUR MISSING YOUR EX WITH HIM!
This will hurt him and cause him to think of the current situation.
These feeling will go away in time. Why your thinking this way is because you see your Ex as you wanted him to be and are wondering why is was not like that with you. It is over, the past is the past.
Enjoy the person that makes you happy now. Or you may let the best thing slip away from you.