I've been dating this guy for 2 months. He's very consistent, we talk almost everyday and see each other a lot. We were together for New Years Eve and had a wonderful time. Now here's the thing, I just recently found out from someone else that he was recently pursuing another girl 2-3 weeks ago. However, something happened between them and they are no longer talking.
Normally I'd be bothered by this, but we aren't in a relationship so I figured it's not my place to bring it up yet, since it's only been 2 months. And I'm going to hell for saying this, but I personally feel no competition with this other girl, I find her very average.
Anywyay, should I bring this up to him? Or should I let him do him and bring it up another time?
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First I would make sure the info you got is reliable & true.
Consistent or not, I kno that when I'm into a girl I have no desire at all to pursue another even though It's my right to pursue as many as I want since we aren't really together.That's how I kno I actually do like the girl. I think most people are the same. You can keep quiet or wait until he meets another he likes enough to chase because he will meet another girl.
His actions are saying he's with you just passing time until someone he likes better comes along. If it did pan out with the last one, plain or not where would that have left you?
When-ever I start seeing a girl & if I found out she's chasing another guy, I would get rid of her immediately. I'm obviousely not what she's looking for. I don't ask questions & don't want to hear her excuse. Actions speak volumes. Don't ever be second to anyone. Ever.3