We live 4 hours away. We've been together for 2 years, one year in the same city, then one year in a LDR.
In November she started to become distant, and didn't wish me my birthday.
I waited for a few days and called her. She told me she had forgotten, that she was very sorry, she had been quite ill and she was depressed, so my anger disappeared and I sent her red roses, saying her sweet things.
I texted her the day of the delivery, asking how she was, if she had enjoyed it. It took her two days to answer, when she was on the train to get back to her parents.
I wished her a happy Xmas the 24th, and that I had finally gotten a good job opportunity (the same day) (which was always a problem, because we couldn't live together and get married (which I absolutely refused as long as I couldn't bring enough money). She made no comment about the job.
Then it was her birthday, and I made a small mistake. I wished her one day too early. I sincerely apologized after she made me notice it (I would have sworn it was the good day, but one can make a mistake).
So I did it again the next day, and didn't get any answer.
I waited the day after and I tried to call her, but she didn't take the call. I thought there were connection issues, until I received a short text. She was with her family, she couldn't talk. I apologized for disturbing, felt a bit sad but I wished her a happy new year by text the 1st.
And I haven't received an answer so far.
I can understand she is depressed, that the end of the year isn't the best period, but why would she want to avoid me ? I don't think I made any big mistake, I never disrespected her.
I love her but I am in a turmoil at the moment, because now that my professional future is getting better, it seems my relationship is going down the drain.
So what is happening, in your opinion ? Thanks.
Since then, I haven't gotten any reply, so I sent a mail to break up 5 minutes ago, without even knowing if it will be read.
I will never know why it happened, but I guess it's not important anymore.
Thanks for your help !