Usually I see him Wendsday nights, Friday nights and the whole weekend. now it'll be maybe Saturday and Sunday. He wants to still see me obviously but he's thinking of me in this process. he is pretty serious about me. it just feels lonely now and then since he started the new job this week, that I have all this free time and I don't know what to do with it. I go to the gym I hang out with my best friend I play the sims, me and my BFF even talked about taking a dance class, but I still miss him. Am I not used to it yet or what's wrong with me?
He told me I was being selfish about being upset about the hours when he said in the long run it'll pay off because we will live together and you will see me every day. I'm just scared. This is a new strange point in my relationship and I haven't gotten in a relationship this long since 2007. I want this to work, and I am willing to wait I guess and see him only once or twice a week.
It still just sucks.
What do I do to cope with the adjustment better? I work a 9-5 job he works 1pm - whenever they need him. So complete opposite shifts and I'm always up earlier than he is.
He is also in the military (army national guard) and I am not.
We have talked about deployment if it were to happen how I would deal with that if I can't deal with this. I feel I'd do whatever it takes I can't help but feel lonely though at the same time when I don't see him.