I am 21 and have no idea what to do.
I have only ever had one boyfriend and we have lived together for over a year now.
He came home yesterday and just nonchalantly announced he was done with me and did not want to be together anymore. Literally two days before we were talking about buy a new house together, getting married and having kids.
I really tried to talk to him about it but his answers were lame.
-I'm not happy anymore
What's wrong with me?
-You're too strong and independent. (seriously)
I asked him what the hell was wrong with being strong and independent ad he said nothing. It just wasn't for him.
he had absolutely no good reason for not wanting to be with me. I feel so betrayed and broken.
Does anyone have any thoughts on why he just decided to leave me.
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I feel for you. My ex did the same to me after 4 1/2 year (you got a better explanation than me). It is the worst feeling. I never got an explanation but evryones interpretation (and I know for a fact it wasn't because of someone else) is that maybe he is in a place in his life where he isn't happy with his life or himself and that is the one thing he can change. The masculinity thing may also be a part of it because might be lacking the feeling of being needed. Just know that if you were just being you it isn't your fault and take comfort in the fact that he will probably regret that decision his whole life now. Specially given how quick the decision was made in the end.Things will get better down the track though.0