Ive been in this relationship for a year now, it's my first real relationship and I love him so much but I'm getting less happy each day. He FLIPS when I choose to be with my friends instead of him and he's always accusing me of cheating. Yet, he goes out and gets drunk with his friends and doesn't even think about me enought to text me or even text BACK.
This is just unfair to me and for the past year, I followed his restrictions, and I'm not the type to do that!
He argues with me about everything but the few times I try to confront him, he feels I'm being ridiculous.
Im not happy but I feel like if we break up, he's have a new girlfriend fast and flaunt her in my face while I sit there alone. I just don't know what to do I'm so confused, please help!
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Its your life and you only have one. You need to tell him to change his ways of being so controlling, or you'llonly hurt yourself more in the long run.
If he Loves and respects you, he'll back off and change for a better future for you.
You need to be upfront an tell him what he's doinbg to you is wrong, Tell him how unfair this makes you feel and tell him your not that type of girl who cheats.
If he Decides to break up with you, than he wasn't worth your time to begin with. Remember
"What's most important are your Feelings not his."2