Not sure if this is normal, but she mentioned to me before how awesome she thinks it is that I'm open about anything. She says she's terrible at talking about stuff because she keeps things to herself (sex talks, relationship, etc.). Like she's not open about it as her personality. She's not good at it.
So I guess it's different for every girl, but like tonight I said I wish I could sleep (cuddle) with her tonight. Now she lives an hour away. But I was just saying it because I miss her. She hasn't consistently been one to say, while on the phone, that she wishes it too, misses me, etc. But she'll say it over text very easily.
So maybe she's not comfortable with saying that stuff in person. I can understand because I used to be that way.
But she may not understand that I feel uncomfortable when she won't talk to me back about it. It may sound a little needy, but I like to hear that she feels the same way sometimes.
I stop myself from saying things because I sort of feel like crap when she can't express herself verbally to me. Like I put myself out there and don't get much back.
I understand I should appreciate that her actions show more than what she verbally says, but what should I do?
Should I just tone it down (I barely even say that stuff) overall?
Anyone have this type of experience?