Plain and simple? There's been a lot of chemistry and attraction between us for a long time now, about a year. And we both know what was going on. I gave several very green lights, and others around us including his friends noticed and made comments about us being a couple. But still - nothing. No move from him. Until now. Which is great (dont get me wrong) - but I'm just wondering - why drag it out? We know each other about 4 years and have a lot of respect and trust between us. I'm just worried that his "putting it off" for so long and not pouncing sooner is an issue or a red flag of somekind. I usually approach new relationships quite casually and I don't take them too seriously until it warrants it. But this has me a bit worried.
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He could've been thinking the same thing, why didn't you make a move? Maybe he wanted to wait to be sure or make sure his feelings wouldn't fade after a couple of months. Because if he acted when he started to feel things for you, chances are his feelings could've been gone after a couple of months, so maybe he wanted to be sure about his feelings first?0