Ok, so my girlfriend just told me she has a UTI, and that I gave it to her. She hasn't been to the doctor yet. I mean, I wash my hands frequently but I guess not right before we fooled around and she didn't pee before and after. We were together Friday night and Saturday and she just told me today. I'm not looking for medical advice, because she's going to a doctor and I not trying to avoid ut blame because if it's something I caused I wanna know so I can prevent it from happening again. My question, is there anything I can say or do to make her more comfortable both physically and mentally? I'm worried she's in pain and feels awkward and I don't want her to feel like that. How can I help her?
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Having an active sexual life, in women, carries risks. She can't, in any possible way, blame you for her UTI. She's an adult, she knows her body, she knows what's good or bad for her. You want to make her feel better, that's OK. Feeling bad for something it's not your fault is not.0