Hypothetically, let's say that one used to cut, and though they have long gotten through it, the scars remain as large and noticeable as ever. If said person asked you on a date, would you say no, based of course on the scars?
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Most people have scars from this and that. I think you need to be prepared that not everyone is equipped to be in a romantic relationship with someone with emotional turmoil (or any other baggage). And that's OK. You want to be with someone who can help you through life, not with someone who isn't capable. (I cut for over 10 years, btw). You don't have to tell her right away, but if you get the sense that the girl you're dating is someone you have to hide all of the difficult parts of your life from, she's not a good candidate.0