How do I know if this guy is being fake... or if he's really just ALWAYS that positive? I mean, he never has ANYTHING bad to say. Too much homework, w/e it'll get done. He never complains, he's always happy. I feel like I am an awful person because I actually have opinions on things. He doesn't ever disagree with me. He just smiles and says it is what it is. What do I make of this guy?
Sometimes it's almost odd how happy he is... I shouldn't judge, but even when things don't go right he's still happy. He failed a test and doesn't seem to think anything of it. He doesn't even seem that concerned. He's just like oh well I'll study harder next time. Idk... we almost have nothing to talk about because he's always saying "aw, oh well, things will improve." How do I know if he's being fake or genuine? Are guys ever fake?
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So you only feel like you have something in common with him if you are complaining to him and nagging? That's why he's giving you encouragement and not making a big deal out of your issues. He doesn't want to be buried in your negativity. A lot of guys are easy going. Bad things happen sometimes, and we pick ourselves up and fight through that sh*t. It's not that we don't care, it's just that you can't change what already happened, you can only try harder or in a different way the next time. Sitting around stewing and bitching doesn't solve anything. Try talking to him about some more positive topics, try doing some things together and having fun.0
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