so I finally see the guy I like after like a month. he tried to hook up with me before, nothing happened though. I told him that I was a virgin and he said he wanted to "devirginize the sh*t outta me." I left though before anything happened. he always says about how much he hates taking a shower and I offered to scrub his back before, this time I was like maybe NOW ull take me up on my offer, he was like"ur a rookie, ill ruin u" . why say it like that now when before he was so willing the other day?he started to be a jerk and was like"maybe ill see you later." I was like whatever and he said what don't you like fate and I said no and he was like what do you wanna do schedule it and went into his house. what's the deal?
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That jerk made an excellent point, even thou he pushed you for sex. You say you're a virgin right? You're close to 30 and haven't had sex yet right?
You still haven't though about what will happen after you lose it? do you think you're still gonna like the guy? if it doesn't work out between both of you whether you still have your virginity or not will not make a significant difference when you go back to being single. It's OK to dream, but reality eventually catches up.
You can keep your virginity as long as you want...I respect that. But me if a girl said she was a virgin at 30 I would seriously stop dating her. period. Why? you don't have sex experience which takes skill and practice to develop. 40 years ago it would've passed as someone with high value and sefl-respect. Nowadays, it's seen as someone who has impossible standards or is just stuck and can't get in the mood for sex because there's something wrong with her.
At the end it your call.0
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