Would it bother you if your new step-son doesn't call or visit?
What Guys Said 1
I remember when I was younger, my mother was dating someone for a while (a cool dude) before he tragically passed away. I didn't have a relationship with my father. I didn't hate the boyfriend, but I didn't desire to be close with him - he was just a guy to me. However, I was younger than your stepson, so I had less say-so about wanting to be around him.
It is possible that he just sees you as "some lady my dad married." It doesn't mean he hates you; he might be indifferent toward you.
What Girls Said 1
I would be bothered. Its your husband's son its natural to want a cool relationship with him. Its hard because you don't want to do too much and seem like the creepy step mom or do too little and seem like a jerk. 13 is also a tough age for kids. 13 year old are typically selfish and can't see pass their noses. I would say keep encouraging him to come over. Also continue to be loving and supportive of his dad. At 13 he may not get it but later in life he will understand more. Don't let it stress you out or become an issue with her relationship with your hubby.
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