NOTE: guys and girls can both answer this question
The idea of a guy being "too interested in a girl", is something that many of us males still don't understand or fathom.
Girls, have you ever had a guy that you were interested in, but you got turned off because somehow he was "TOO INTERESTED" in you?
What did this guy do or not do, say or not say, that "scared you off" somehow?
What is the threshold of interest a guy can show you until his interest in you is "too much to handle" or "too intense"?
Whether you are a guy or a girl answering, please feel free to describe scenarios so we can understand your point of view on this topic.
Thanks for answering. 8-)
- I'm a girl; yes I have been turned off of a guy because he was "too interested" in meVote A
- I'm a girl; I've never had this situation happen to me beforeVote B
- I'm a guy; I have a hunch that I scared off a girl because I showed "too much interest" in herVote C
- I'm a guy; I don't think that I ever scared a girl away by showing "too much interest"Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
This has happened to me, yes. Not that I was looking for a relationship or anything. I am in a committed relationship. When I went to university, some guys talked to me and so I thought I'd get to know them since it's always good to have friends. But dear Lord, these guys wouldn't leave me alone for a second. They were blowing up my phone, talking about how "they were too ugly to get a girl", hunting me down on campus...just always there. I firmly believe, with one of the guys, it was a legit stalker situation. He was EVERYWHERE. Outside my hall, at the library, at the cafeteria, at the gym, in my classes...always talking. Always asking to hang out, always telling me I was pretty and asking me out even AFTER I told him about my boyfriend.
They freaked me out. So now I avoid them. I blocked them on FB, deleted their number, and just plain started avoiding them.
They were too eager. Have a life, for goodness sake,5