Ok, so there is this guy from school who I am pritty sure is trying to flirt with me and seems to be hinting at wanting to ask me out.
He constantly compliments me ( my hair, clothes, ect.) and follows me around from class to class...
And as flattering as it is it makes me feel kinda uncomfortable. I am very VERY shy, especally around boys, and have never had a boyfriend or even been on a date before. On top of that I don't even like the guy, I simply act polite to words him and tollorate his advances as best I can.
I want him to back off but I don't want to be rude or hurtful about it.
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I see this question often and wonder what the issue is. Do not be a door mat your whole life. Do not choose to be a people pleaser. Your space is your space and if you feel someone is bothering you then you tell them. Simply say I prefer to be left alone by you. Thank you for the attention but I am not interested by you. Be adult and simple about it. It is unfair to you AND him by not being honest and quick about it.1