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I'd say if you are with someone who's willing to try it, and give it up immediately if it hurts you, that it might work in your situation.
I've got a strong sex drive and could handle the sensual side of things, but it would take an amazing woman to be the object of all my love and to reciprocate if we were both having flings on the side. I get jealous in the emotion department.