Been with my partner 17 years we are still young 36 and 34,we have a very active sex life an 3 kids he's a bit of a sex addict lol,but lately he says sex feels the same and he can't feel himself ejeculate,he has been asking me to let him try someone else obut id rather he went to an escort to see if its me or him.Im scared to let him try someone else in case he does like it an won't come back,he says we are not over but doesn't seem to understand how I'm feeling,making me feel a lot like crap he doesn't understand that sometimes up to 4 times a day for 17 years he might be loosing sensation always seems to think its all me :(
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I'd say if you are with someone who's willing to try it, and give it up immediately if it hurts you, that it might work in your situation.
I've got a strong sex drive and could handle the sensual side of things, but it would take an amazing woman to be the object of all my love and to reciprocate if we were both having flings on the side. I get jealous in the emotion department.0