I started dating this guy... it has been AWESOME until recently. I was really starting to think he was the one... until lately. We used to stay up late on the phone talking all the time... the conversation never stopped. All of the sudden, we have nothing to talk about! He doesn't share anything personal with me... I try to be super open with him and tell him about my day and talk about really intimate details of my life and he doesn't do any of that back. I feel like there is something he doesn't like about me... and he's purposefully not disclosing anything. Do guys do that?
I find that when I say certain things he really... shuts down. For example, if I am sarcastic... he just looks really confused. I've stopped trying to be sarcastic, but it seems like I've already killed things so to speak? We go to dinner and he just stares at me to talk... It's actually extremely awkward. It's hard to have a conversation with someone who just keeps smiling and nodding and saying "aw it's okay." It's like he doesn't really care about anything I have to say... and that he doesn't want to share anything with me about himself.
What's going on here? Maybe it's time to end things. It seems like he wants me to be "the one" but isn't willing to be open with me? I wonder why though. I also wonder why he continues to ate me if he really feels that way. Maybe he doesn't know?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
- Only if they are young/immatureVote C
- Maybe if they don't know what they wantVote D
- Other?Vote E
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i don't know it would seem odd for a guy to do this if he was trying to date the girl0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE