This girl at work told me to not be so nice
What Girls Said 1
She was implying that she likes you and if you kept being nice she would fall for you!
What Guys Said 1
I think you should revert back to your initial principals. She obviously learned now that you two are capable of being really nice and helpful as either of you feel be. There was no reason to take it so hard but you should have asked her for an apology since you were offended.
Interesting note; you say "she knew I wasn't mad or anything.." but this is contradicted when you say "This actually kind of pissed me off." You need to accept the fact that you were indeed offended and tell her you appreciate her change in behavior but you still want her to acknowledge what she did was disrespectful.
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