My fiancee and I are both 23. When I met her when she was 19 she was a part time model, modelling some swimwear and fashion lines.
Last year she finished university and met some girls on a night out and began hanging around with them. These girls were all glamour models and all had the same agent. In August she told me she was having breast implants, which came out of the blue, she'd always been happy with her body and had a fantastic figure.
She went ahead with it and went from a B cup to a large DD, they looked massive on her body. She went out every weekend with this new group of girls and progressively her dress style became more and more revealing of her fake boobs.
In December she told me she was signing with this agent and she'd got to know him very well over the past few months and he liked the 'fake look' she had.
Well within two days of signing with him she'd had a topless portfolio done and two weeks ago she did her first topless shoot for a top shelf magazine this agent has a share in.
She's changed so much, she's arrogant and doing topless modelling was never ever something she would have done in the past. It seems since having her breasts done and spending increasing amounts of time with the agent she's turned into another girl.
Why has she changed so much?
We've had a long talk last night and she told me that she knows she's changed but she didn't realize her breast implants would look so good on her and they've given her a body that has opened up opportunities for her.
She said she's going to be staying at her agents house, and I asked her what on earth that meant and what was going on between them and she said its just a business arrangement and it will give her time to think.
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I agree with yaddayadda and kambo. Modeling is strictly a superficial profession; there's no way around that. Regardless of your girlfriend's personality or morals, a model has to be superficial to some degree. How superficial they are depends upon the person.
The fact that your girlfriend was essentially peer-pressured into getting a boob job and now does topless photos says a lot about her confidence. As much as she may seem confident (or possibly even arrogant), her appearance stems from a huge issue of low self esteem. She clearly needs validation of her looks in order to be happy and that is not healthy.
Also, the fact that she was modeling to begin with when you met her is a sign of this and it should come to no surprise to you that she is continuing to seek validation through modeling. It WILL most likely get worse unless she gets help to improve her self esteem.0