and then you tell him to "go away" and leave you alone and you get irritated. Then if he stops talking to you, you get upset or start bugging him to talk to you, what is your deal? are you joking?
If I stop talking talking to her she tells me "i have an attitude" or am "being rude" and sometimes if I walk by without saying anything, she will jokingly say "wow, you didn't say anything to me when you walked by, that's a new one".
Does she just want to be left alone? I need advice so I can act on it ASAP.
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The goal for many females is to gain CONTROL in the realationship. So they're quick to criticize you for no real reason; just to putyouo the defensive and afraid of beng dumped, but when you walk away, they suddenly decide they like you after lall, and are right there 'bugging' the guy
They hope you will them have their way, since they've shown they'll cut the you off without warning, with the tiniest excuses imaginable.
And if the guy lets himself be pushed around like that ,the girl has contol of the relationship.0