Background story is that my girlfriend of three years broke up with me. Two months went by and she missed me so much, we started talking and seeing each other here and there again. Three months into trying to work ourselves out, she became distant and that she didn't want to talk to me anymore.
I believe that she was so depressed after the break up, because of her living and job situation (she lives with parents, has a crappy hospital pharmacy tech job, and just can't figure out what she wants to do with her life), that she couldn't get herself to get us back to normal. I believe that she started to question everything (such as where each of us is heading in life) and might've met a guy that gives her new and refreshing attention, felt guilty about those feelings for him (she never said a word about him to me but has since visited him for a weekend), and decided to give up on us for now to explore that new option.
I have since been on a strict no contact rule, and have basically dropped off the face of the earth. No social media activity, texts, messages, calls, nothing. Her birthday was last week, and she even posted a picture of flowers she got from this rebound new guy of hers, and I didn't message her for her birthday or anything.
What should I do? This girl has been my everything and my future since we met, and I love her with everything I have. To get her back, even after we tried and she still couldn't get herself to be happy and out of her rut, what should I do? Have any of you girls been on her side of this story?
Also, I would appreciate the "just move on, she's not worth it" comments to a minimum. I've heard enough of that already. Thanks