Is this just the recovery stage or has he simply had enough? Should I break up with him for the best or give him time to heal like he says? I'm 15 by the way and he's 17 (dont judge that) but he's a lot more mature than me so I tend to cause pathetic arguments
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Your words stabbed him. He may be 17 but to hear someone you care about call you a f***ing bastard rips your heart out. For whatever reason he hasn't broke things off cleanly like he should but his heart just isn't in it. You burned up your chance when you said what you said and now you've got to live with it.
Since he doesn't seem to know what to do, you need to take the bull by the horns and do the right thing. Break up with him. Don't be nasty, don't say mean things, just be clear and firm "I don't see any future in this relationship. We shouldn't see each other anymore. I'm sorry if this hurts your feelings but I believe it would be best for both of us." Keep your distance for a few months and then maybe call to see how he's doing. If he's healed then maybe he'll be warm towards you. If not then at least you've done the right thing by giving him his freedom.
Best of luck to you, I wish things were different but you sound mature enough to hear the truth.
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