I've liked this guy for over a year and every time I would see him, I would get nervous and my heart would start beating so fast and I would get nervous. I've known him for about 5 years but we never really talked. I'm sure we couldve talked but my shyness didn't let me. Well I wanted this guy so bad and I was just too scared to do anything about it because I was afraid he'd humiliate me.
But I wonder. I don't think this guy would like me in that way. He's an extrovert; he's all about hanging out with friends, smoking pot, going out, etc. And I'm quiet, introverted, and I don't have many friends and in college and kind of a nerd.
So now I met this guy at school who I actually talk to. I think we're friends. I'm not sure. But he's kind of lame and nerdy like me and I enjoy being around him. I normally don't like to be around people but I like to be around him. And when I'm with him, I forget all about the guy I like.
And now that I sit here wondering about this, my crush seems irrelevant. I kind of don't care if I talk to him or not. Last time I saw him, I felt so strongly about him and decided to make a move the next time I saw him, but now, I don't feel like it. I don't think I like him anymore. Is it healthy to move on like this? I don't know if I like the new guy but I sure do enjoy being with him.
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Yeah it's fine. You probably were super into him because there was nobody else in the picture. now that there is a guy who is actually available to you, you don't need to be crushing on that other guy from afar. he takes his place1