I had been with my ex for over 10 years. I told him that he was the smallest I had been with after we first had sex 10 years ago. I totally enjoy the sex we have and had and think he's my best partner, but he thinks it could never be becauseI think he is the smallest. I told him that doesn't matter but he is gun ho on not believing me. I was just young and didn't think before I spoke. now he says he can never be married to a woman that would never think that way. Well he forgive me? He says we are done. I still hang out with him although we broke up 2 months ago and he went to my awards banquet with me a week ago. How do I show him or is the issue really something else?
Is there anyway to come back from telling him he was the smallest I had been with
What Guys Said 4
I wouldn't want to marry you either. You can always try finding a guy who isn't as small.0
Oh, the cruelty of it...0
Not sure how the topic got brought up but if the size doesn't make or break the sex for you then the issue must lie elsewhere for his outrage. You can also tell him how too big can hurt a girl and the girl won't want to have sex with someone who is really big down there because of the pain it could cause.0
Why on earth would you tell him he's the smallest you've ever been with? Did he ask? Did you just say it unprovoked?
How would you like it if a guy said you were the fattest/loosest he's ever been with?0
What Girls Said 2
If he dwells on that for 10 years, forget about him.0
He's been angry about this for 10 years? If so, the issue might be something else, but something connected, like self-worth or masculinity issues... If you've been trying to tell him the same thing for 10 years and he hasn't believed you for 10 years, I don't think there's anything you can do about that. There's no way to conclusively prove to him that you think he's the best.0
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