It's not that I don't ever want kids... I just don't ever want babies! Plus the idea of adoption makes me feel all warm and fuzzy (even though it can be a long process!). Obviously I am only 19 so not any time soon, but hopefully my boyfriend (or whoever I marry :s if we break up I mean life happens I guess) accepts me for my dream of adopting. I also have pretty severe tokophobia which is a phobia of pregnancy and childbirth so that probably effects how I feel about babies. Even my mom says that I was ugly in the beginning with a pointed head, bruises everywhere from being born obviously and practically bald. My dad thought I was the prettiest thing he'd ever seen but my mom was like "um doctor will her eyes always be swollen and weird like that?". When I healed and got to about 4 months I was in the newspaper and what not but new borns are CREEEPYYY. I don't get the fuss everyone makes over babies, they look like confuzed shrunken old people that like to stick their own feet in their mouths and yell at people!
They also have rolls that collect sweat and dead skin and milk and they stink, and they shit themselves and I do not see the appeal!
I mean admit it! babies are ugly compared to actual children!
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No, you're not alone on that. I find babies gross and disgusting too.
I think it would be cool to adopt 2 kids, one Asian and one black so one is good at maths and science and becomes a doctor or something and the other is good at sports and becomes a sports star.
I would also have one natural child and adopt them out and then when they turn 18 surprise them and tell them they're rich.4
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