Have you ever felt sick to your stomach like you want to throw up mental anguish over a girl you were obsessed with and couldnt have?
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Sick? No. Well... A bit, yes. But, I wouldn't describe it as sick, so much as frantic and desperate for any ounce of attention or affection she could give me. That was my first puppy love. That was when I was 15. Never felt anything like that again. Even after I decided to stay away from women, all together, I never met anyone who really solicited that kind of desire or desperation after I was... well, 17. Yeah. After 17, I never met another who made me feel like it was fervently important and dire that I be with them.
Though. I will note that the puppy love desperation has stayed with me with that one girl. I don't think I'll ever forget her. In some degree. It's not so much desperation anymore, as it is an intermittently numb aching. In other words, give it some time, and it'll get weaker. You can't have what you can't have. It blows, for sure, but that's just how it is. Try going for a different girl, in the meantime. That helped during my existential puppy love crisis. Quite a lot, actually.0
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