So I have noticed that guys tend to I guess see me as a slut.. I don't even know how to say this, well Im always the one who starts the conversation with a guy I don't know I just can't help myself and for those who don't know I am a virgin so no I don't want the "D" I feel like I always have the need to have guys aproval.. I hate this about myself I feel like I obsess a little too much over guys 😒 but keep in mind I am only 17 and I get told a lot that I'm beautiful and stuff but I always feel the need to approach a guy instead of being patient.
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Just when you thought high school wasn't lame enough. Find the boy who started the rumor and be like "why do you think I'm a slut first name, last name" and then when he comes up with his shitty. "Errr you asked me to your party errr bday sex errrr"
You can be like "no. I was being *nice* asshat. I was asking out of the goodness of my heart. I was like hey that loser looks like he needs some people to be nice to him. Obviously I was wrong. I have a strict no douchebag policy so don't worry about showing up."
As for this nonsense about who talks to who first tell people to stfu. That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. If you want to talk to people you can. You don't need to wait around hoping some idiot boy will notice you. If that somehow makes you slutty in people's eyes they're not the kind of people you want to be around anyway.
Like I don't even get that logic. You have to sit and be pretty until someone deigns to talk to you? I'm sorry I thought this was 2015 not 1815. Do you need a formal letter of introduction too? You're awesome just the way you are. Rock that instead of shackling yourself to the words of stupid people.0