Let's pretend a guy doesn't really initially like a girl THAT much but he finds out that she's hard to get and doesn't date or hook up with just any guy. Will that make her more attractive/appealing to him or does he have to want her to begin with?
- He will probably want her more even if he didn't really like her or notice her beforeVote A
- He will probably only want her more if he wanted her beforeVote B
- Being hard to get makes a guy less interested regardless of initial attractionVote C
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i dont see what ';getting' someone matters.. its whether you can keep them thats the work. so much emphasis on stuff that doesn't actually mean anything. guys who want to work hard before they even know you just like games. its got nothing to do with how serious they are going to be about a relationship. in my opinion the harder someone wants to work before a relationship is a pretty good indication ofd how little they will work after., bc in their mind 'getting' you is the important thing. when in reality things dont even begin until you have each other.0