is it weird that whenever i see a really attractive guy or a "pretty boy", i automaticlly disregard them as potential dating partners?
I have a tendency to do pretty much all the time, on dating apps, people i meet irl, yeah you name it.
And even if i just see a really hot guy I dont give him any attentiom because i know he gets a lot of attention from girls, so i dont see "the point" of giving him any attention..
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I don't think this is weird at all actually. It seems most girls in our age group automatically assume guys they find attractive are "players" or "assholes", so ironically, they ignore these guys and go after a guy they find less attractive. All in all, any guy has a potential to be a player.
The problem with this thinking, is beauty is subjective. A girl might see a guy she finds a 10/10 in looks but her friend might think he's a 5/10. Another issue I have with this line of thinking is men are not put up to standards on their looks, where as women are, so it's ignorant to think that "Good looking" men are man-whores in the first place.
I'm not assuming this is the reason you do this though. You said it's because they get a lot of attention from girls? How do you know this? It depends on the guy. I went to school with a guy in high school, who was ripped solid (muscle) and had the "chiseled" jaw look and he didn't have his first girlfriend (or lose his virginity) until he was 22. And it wasn't by choice either, he would actually get REJECTED (I don't know why though.)
I know one thing: When I see a girl I find REALLY good looking, I always approach her!0