Okay... this might sound a little crazy but I've experienced this a few times. It happens rarely but one of those rare times was last night. I've dreamt last night that by coincidence, I met an ex-girlfriend of mine that I still feel very intimate and special about today. It was sort of a sexual dream and I think I was quite aroused but it was also extremely powerful in emotional terms. Suddenly, all those beautiful memories I've got from this girl came to the surface of my consciousness agian. In my dream we sat together and talked about the old days and I suddenly felt both incredibly in love with her again and extremly guilty because I have a girlfriend right now. I remembered how wonderful it felt to cuddle with this ex-girlfriend, how we had so many great conversations, how she was one of the sweetest people I've ever met, how awesome sex had felt with her etc.. The thing I had with this girl was a sort of a summer romance I had while I lived in America for about 2 years a couple of years ago. I guess that's also why I still felt in love with her. The reason we had parted was not a fight or something like that but the simple reason that I had to go back home to Switzerland again... EXCEPT for the fact that all of this has never happened! I mean... I did live in America but this girl has never existed... at least not in my life. My brain just invented all those beautiful "memories". However, when I woke up, I didn't think so. I knew that the part of meeting the girl again had only happened in the dream but I was completely convinced that she really is one of my ex-girlfriends. Even 2 or 3 hours after getting up I was totally confused whether I'm just forgetting about a beautiful life experience I've had or if my brain is simply bullshitting me and it never actually happened. Only towards the end of the day I finally realized that it was all just a dream and the girl has never actually been a part of my life. It's really crazy how insanely real some dreams can feel! Have you ever experienced anything like this? Do you think it's weird?
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In the morning I called somebody who did not like me but tolerated me because we shared mutual friends and then the mother or aunt of the person I called said they weren't home and I asked 'Is it because he is not home or is it because he does not want to talk to me?" A couple of minutes later, I started dreaming about different things. When I woke up, I could not remember whether this conversation actually happened or whether this entire conversation was a dream. When I asked him about it later on with our friends there - he said I never called his house in the morning and I must have been dreaming. I think it was a dream because I am too smart to say these things out loud but I am not sure because it did not feel like a dream.0