I'm quite a shy person, but I want to change that, as I have aa reputation for being shy.. how ccan I change people's opinions nd become a confident girl?
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Most people only think of confidence as a collection of shallow clichés they learned from their (well-intentioned, but misinformed) mothers: “Be yourself!” “Don’t be afraid to be who you are!”
You have to believe in yourself. What I mean is, there’s one simple thing that we
can all read naturally on the surface of everyone we meet: body language.
So in order to be more confident, your body must ''send'' positive messages to people you meet. And to do that you must control your emotions. Your subconscious mind is home to your emotions, so whatever you’re feeling at any given moment tends to show automatically in your body language. To get control of your emotions you must believe in yourself. If you believe you're worth something, others will believe it too. If you don’t believe you have high value, your body language will project negative messages instead.0