I use to always get out my way to please others. So they wouldn't feel bad or mad at me. Or for what ever reason now I am in my point in life. That I just don't care if I can't do it i can't. I am just like go screw your self. I am so over it no one bends backwards for me.
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I would never intentionally hurt someone in anyway. I'm a kind and compassionate person. I will go out of my way to help people , but... i am not a pushover. My kindess only extends to those who appreciate it. I won't allow anyone to take advantage of my kindess
People treat you how you allow them to treat you, but you shouldn't change into someone else, all you need to do is... set limits for yourself that you won't go beyond. If you say " yes" to others make sure you aren't saying " no" to yourself.
Just set boundaries so no one can abuse your kindness. Peoeple will then respect you more, and be less likely to take advantage of you. 😊1