I dont find myself attractive at all yet this dude said I was sexy and one said I was very pretty but I have been bullied for years over my looks and the guys who said it aren't even my type.
How do I stop feeling this way?
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You need to do a lot of soul searching, girl I have been there. I suffered from an eating disorder on and off for six years, I understand what it feels like. You need to just learn to love yourself, and you first do this by accepting that you can't hate yourself pretty. You can't guilt yourself beautiful. You can't spend your whole life wishing you were prettier because it'll do nothing for you. You have to find outlets, guides, and such about self esteem (youtube is a great place), therapy helps if it's an option. For me, it was learning to work with what I had and change what I could. Don't tell yourself: my skin sucks! Tell yourself: It isn't the best but it can get better. Little steps like this will end you up in a much happier place.
When all else fails, tell yourself this: "ugly" is not the worst thing you can be. A shitty person is.0