Used to be open, friendly, innocent until I met a girl?

Now im becoming more and more selfish. Things ended bad between us even when I only meant good for her. 5 years later and dated multiple girls but the disappointments is making me more selfish and reserved. Is this normal? I can either the chilled cool laid back guy, or completely switch and turn into an asshole for his own gains. It feel like there's a battle going on inside me. Anyone in similar situation?


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  • That's typical. You get burned and you learn. You guard yourself a little more. You start seeing the games some women play.

    Part of it is you need to start learning to trust again. Sounds like you'll trust a woman until she does something that reminds you of your last relationship, then all those bad feelings resurface and are redirected at the new girl.

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